Best Anti Aging Skin Care Products

I am in my 30’s. I have some blemishes on my face, some mild wrinkles on my forehead, and some laugh lines. Nothing too serious. Am I too young to start using the over-the-counter anti- wrinkle creams such as Neutrogena Healthy Skin Anti-Wrinkle cream w/spf?

Someone told me that these products can actually CREATE wrinkles if you use them when you don’t need to.

Can you give me some advice?

I am not yet 30 and I have oily skin and I’m still breaking out a lot. I also have wrinkles or fine lines on my forehead, around my eyes(a little) and around my mouth(laughing lines) I’m looking for a product(s) that will help clear my skin and help the fine lines. Any suggestions?